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Getting married in a Catholic church?

I am Catholic. The girl I'm going to commit to not. She however remains Christian. As a Catholic, what are the ramifications of not getting married in a Catholic (but still Christian) Church? I still receive the sacriment of Marriage or not they have to be given by a Catholic priest?
  Thanks for the help!

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12 comments for “Getting married in a Catholic church?”


  1. imacatho says:

    The Catholic Church allows marriage between Catholics and non Catholics.
      Because the Church recognizes the tremendous challenge that the two will face religions, they may have to obtain permission from the bishop.
      For more information, see the Catechism of the Catholic Church, sections 1633-1637: http://www.usccb.org/catechism/text/pt2s
      With love in Christ.

  2. sparki77 says:

    Yes, you may have a valid marriage with a non-Catholic, even if they marry in the church instead of yours. You will have to waiver and must meet all other requirements for premarital his diocese. Consult your priest for more details, but comforted to know that Catholics are most definitely allowed to marry non-Catholics.

  3. French Catholic says:

    You need to talk to a priest about it.

  4. Miki says:

    I think wed in a Catholic church or need to be a practicing Catholic who was baptized and confirmed.
      U may need to find a non-denominational Christian church for the ceremony.
      Edit: I was wrong, sorry. I just read the article about me.

  5. ღ♥Jess♥ღ says:

    My aunt is a Catholic and a Christian my uncle, my uncle had to convert to Catholicism when they married. Perhaps it varies from church to church though.

  6. The Tigress says:

    Marriying by or not by the Church is to obey the sacrament of marriage. If he had to be given by a Catholic priest, people living far from any priest woudn't be able to meet with her and that is not correct. What matters is who you marry and not divorce.

  7. Menon R says:

    There are special considerations for Catholics who marry non-Catholics. Most diocese discourages the celebration of the Eucharist during the wedding ceremony, because it underlines the division between the couple rather than unity. Only the Catholics present would be free to receive the Eucharist, for example. And while the non-Catholic partner is no longer necessary to sign a commitment to raise the couple's children as Catholics, the Catholic must promise to do everything possible to pass the faith to the next generation.
      Justa quick Google search gave me this website. http://www.oncecatholic.org/reading_answ
      you may want to try that too next time.

  8. Father K ™ says:

    This type of marriage is sacramental and not fully recognized as a "holy matrimony" for the Roman Catholic Church.
      And … please know that ministers the sacrament is suitable for the bride and groom. The priest is there to offer the blessing of the Church.
      But should remain adequate sacramental matter, form, intended … and above all - you need to be prepared and both need to understand the idea of sacramental intention before marriage is totally legitimate in the eyes of the church perspective.

  9. Yogini says:

    You can call your priest and ask him to be part of the ceremony, but you have to go through pre-cana, even if they're getting married in the Church. The priest would then have to be fit for part of the ceremony in another church. You still have to follow the steps of a Catholic priest and must be present otherwise are not married by the Church. You'd better talk to your pastor about this can be given specific guidance.
      Better for you.

  10. gilliami says:

    I would recommend having this conversation with his priest. He would be better able to advise you since he already knows you and I hope you know your boyfriend too.
      I hope that helps.

  11. 2 says:

    You can no longer accept communion in the Catholic Church, but still can contribute a significant portion of their salary.

  12. raxtonit says:

    Ask your pastor. You need permission from the bishop to marry a non-RC. Your father can tell you how to apply for it. It can also help you make the decision whether to marry in a church in RC or to request permission to marry in another church. You can also check this FAQ.



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